All glory to God.
UPDATE, February 22, 2026...
The video originally posted was removed. This one is similar.
UPDATE, March 30, 2026...
desire, v.t., 1. to wish or long for; crave; covet. 2. to ask for; request. 3. to want sexually. n. 1. a wish or craving. 2. sexual appetite. 3. a request. 4. a thing or person desired.
SYN.--desire, generally interchangeable with the other words here in the sense of to long for, stresses intensity or ardor (to desire success); wish is not a strong a term as desire and has special application when an unrealizable longing is meant (he wished summer were here); want, specifically suggesting a longing for something lacking or needed, generally is a more informal equivalent of wish (she wants, or wishes, to go with us); crave suggests desire to gratify a physical appetite or an urgent need (to crave affection).
covet, v.t. & v.i., to desire ardently (especially, something that another person has); crave; long for --SYN. see envy.
ardent, adj. 1. glowing; beaming. 2. passionate; vehement; eager; intensely enthusiastic. 3. [Obs.], burning; aflame. --SYN. see passionate.
envy, n. 1. a feeling of discontent and ill will because of another's advantages, possessions, etc.; resentful dislike of another who has something desirable. 2. desire for some advantage or possession belonging to another. 3. an object of envious feeling: as, he was the envy of other boys because he had a bicycle. 4. [Obs.] a)ill will; spite. b) odium. v.t. to feel envy toward, at, or because of; regard with envy. v.i. [Obs.], to feel or show envy.
SYN.--to envy another is to feel ill will, jealousy, or discontent at his possession of something that one keenly desires to have or achieve oneself; begrudge implies an unwillingness that someone should possess or enjoy something that he needs or deserves; to covet is to long ardently and wrongfully for something that belongs to another.
(All from "Webster's New World Dictionary of the American Language," The World Publishing Company, Cleveland and New York, copyright 1964.)
The commandment is...
“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.” (Exodus 20:17 NIV)
Desiring something wrongfully, that belongs to someone else, is the sin, not simply having desire. As the video says, desire comes from within and is not something we do.
Coveting is a heart issue, and only God can read the heart. Coveting leads to the "slippery slope" where we act on our improper desires by stealing, ...or worse.
Desiring a married man is something that comes from within and can exist without taking any action. Coveting is acting upon that desire, through thought life and eventual overt actions.
Desiring an unmarried man or widower is perfectly legitimate and honorable. The appropriateness of acting upon that desire depends upon circumstances and the standing of one's own situation, however. This is Common Sense.


























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